WARM/SHADE- the it couple!

Nowadays its easy to give up on love, the idea of real love and finding that one special someone! but it does happen! I have Proof!-Jerrod and Billy(above) are celebrating their one year anniversary! In this world, at their age -that's almost impossible- so a round of applause is in order! These two have what it takes! its inspiring to see their dynamic!- and sickening to see how well they know each other! -ugh!- They also know whats important- that hard times will come and everyday won't be easy- but they get the big picture! Whats their secret? Hell i don't know!

But I've seen first hand that they don't stress over little things, because at the end of the day its never worth loosing one another! Congratulations Jerrod and Billy! ya know I love You! And I'm sure You'll have many more years to come- Cuz well, I'll tie U two together and lock u in a pyramid if i have to! May Jerrod stay thick enough to keep You Warm and Billy stay tall enough to give u Shade lol Cheers!

Someone U Should Know!

This birthday boy is a showstopper! Currently attending Roosevelt University majoring in theatre. This handsome hunk is much more than a pretty face! Having seen his performance as "Ms.Roj" in person, let me tell u talent and beauty has never mixed so well since...well ME lol. To top it off he's a real down to earth- fun loving- Christian! how did the rainbow get so lucky!? hat's off to who ever "Puts a Ring on it" Micah Armani is quite the catch, and someone u should know!

CROSS OVER- RnB IS DEAD!

Has anybody noticed that RnB music is gone! Name one Rnb artist who still sings Rnb
I was all for it when Beyonce branched out into different Genres on her latest cd- I raised an eyebrow though when she released techno mixes tho!- I should have saw it comin when that country group redid irreplaceable! and now with the release of new music from Rhianna, Chris brown and alicia keys- I'm wondering what happend to soul music- even jennifer hudsons album was...commercial, i will hand it to chrissette michele and trey songz and usher i suppose for keepin black music alive, but its slim pickings- I miss the soul- Beyonce aint even sing dangerously in love on her tour- She sung Ave Maria- And In the arms of an agel- this is some b.s- i want Soul back on the top 40! things gettin real blue eyed in the music scene!

check out the selloutness goin on in music below!
chris brown-http://www.zshare.net/audio/67287026abfe9c5e/
rhianna-http://rihannanow.com/
Alicia- http://www.aliciakeys.com/

CANT WE ALL JUST GET ALONG!!

So i walked into the computer lab at school today and instantly saw one of my friends i went and said hi and then found myself a seat. Seconds later a guy across the room blurted out that he was "living" for my hair! i said thanks as i noticed his fine group of friends...a while passed when my friend came over to tell me how much he didn't like the guy who liked my hair! arrrg! i hate when that happens! I like having sexy friends- but ever so often i find that the sexy gays don't like other sexy gays! i want us to just be one happy-SEXY- family- adopt some sexy gay babies lol carry around are sexy gay puppies yaknow !? so the next time u run into another sexy gay- don't be shy- say hi show the love! cuz its been my experience that their checkin u out the same way you're checkin them...it's a sexy thang!

Quote of the day

It was easy to get Over U

Cuz U were always beneath me!

by: tonyjones

Someone You Should Know!

Allow me To introduce you to Robert Elmore. This 20 year old college student is no joke!-While studying Psychology at Buena Vista University, Elmore also works, takes part in school orginizations such as"Men of Character" and "Swag Team Steppers. Robert is no stranger to multi tasking- In highschool while on the schools award winning show choir, he also led the school drama club stared in the school play his senior year, was voted Senior Class "Divo" and lets not forget to mention the first Lgbt Prom King!- With a history of charitable works such as time spent at Aunt Martha's- youth service center- promoting aids awareness and as the "Macro"of the Youth Pride Center-(the nations largest black gay youth center) I am sure that This here stud has great things in his future!.....did I mention he was my best friend?! take note- Robert Elmore is someone you should know!

Epiphany#4-2009

Even the way we use the bathroom is goverened by masculine/Feminine rules! WHY? nobody's watching!!Fellas I encourage you to rebel! HAVE A SEAT! but only if you choose too!

Epiphany#3-2009

It's my opinion that in order to make a good top, you need to be on the bottom first.

FREE YO MIND-a message 4 da kidz

Brothers in Sisters, Boys in Girls -I have come today to set u free!

How often have u seen some skinny jeans that would look great on you, only to find its in the women's section- Or wanted to get the new Sean John winter coat but the starting size is XL! and u know ur little frame would look ridiculous carrying around that designer Garbage Bag!!!

I remember growing up feeling limited to the Male selection of clothing- and being fashionably unsatisfied! I eventually came to the conclusion that i would where watever wanted no matter what side of the store it was on! And my wardrobe has benefitted quite handsomely- I also found that so called "womens clothing" is a whole lot cheaper!
Did you know?- that Wet Seal has a regular sale called "Buy one get one for a PENNY"......A PENNY!
Needless to say i've spent plenty of penny's in my day!
I hve gotten belts for $1 and Jeans as low as $10.00- Name a "men's" store that can do that!
So aspiring Fashionista's around the world- I encourage u to free your mind!

For those of u who don't want to be considered femine ask yourself what is feminine and what is butch?
I came to the conclusion that in Olden days and other cultures men wore skirts and sum Keltic cultures still do to this day with no issue! I was then reminded that egyptian kings were always adorned with lots of makeup and accescories. Even Macho Fictional Characters like hercules had a skirt.I actually think in olden egypt women wore what looked liked modern day pants but men never did. So i decided that the lines of Butch and Fem were determined by cultures throughout history, are ever changin and was never regulated by God- There is No word of God to my knowledge stating what a man wears and woman wears- correct me if i wrong! Adam and even were naked right?
- I'm not encouraging anyone to go buy bra's for breast the dont have-I look at my clothes- i realize that nothing i buy determined my sexual organs. None of my shirts have padding of anykind to indicate breast! i certainly dont wear Bras. so in esscence my "girl shirts" are just t-shirts my skinny jeans are just tight- in another society these things might not determine my gender! and let me be clear I LOVE MY GENDER! I love it so much that i date men exclusively!! Having long hair real or fake doesnt make u a woman- its just a style popular with women today! but when white concurrers first landed on plymoth rock they wore white wigs with ribbons, still they were considered men!I think what makes a man is on the inside- so don't get caught up with the rules of this world, cuz they change every decade- News Flash-its almost 2010!- Time For A Change!
And the change starts with You! I kno plenty of friends who have slipped over to the womens rack for some ascessories or shirts of some kind-and stores are taking notice too- Urban outfitters now sells Deep V neck T's for men- in the 90's that was a look only J.Lo could pull off!- So go head- get FIERCE- Free yo mind- happy shopping!

Sneak Peak- Show U Crazy

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Heres The demo for my next studio project:Show u crazy-

I'll be recording and choreographing for it starting next week- it should be performance ready by early november- Gimme Feed Back!!!- dont forget to follow this blog for more updates on all things TonyJones!

Epiphany#2-2009

Friends that are easily lost, are not worth keeping- nor worth chasing!

Drake/weezy quotes of the day

from: the comeback season:
U not us so U knock us!

any previous affilitions keep they mouth closed so i spare'm humiliation

from Unstopable

Weezy: even when i'm layin on my back i'm never backin down

Heaven on Earth...

News flash: IT -AINT- GONNA -HAPPEN

People struggle and worry all the time about how to have the perfect life, but nobody has the perfect life! Life has ups & downs. That person you know, who you think has a perfect life- they are just having some good days,but trust me they have bad days too!

*Once you realize that problems are guaranteed to come, the good news is they are guaranteed to go too!!

* How long it takes to get rid of a problem is up to you!

*When the problem comes, dont waste time cryin tellin everybody "oh, i got problem, help i got problem!"

*As soon as You see the problem ask yo-self "self?......huh?.....how can we get rid of this problem?"......."idk......we better pray on it"

*then ask God "Lord please help me Get rid of this problem"

AND HE WILL FIX IT!!!!!

* so dont worry about it, Just wait for him to show you the solution!

*In the Meantime- Enjoy all the blessings u still got!

* don't let that problem make you forget how good you got it!

* Believe me somebodies got it worse!

IMPORTANT: Once the problem is gone.....let it go!

* dont go around talkin bout " I can't believe I had a problem"

*You gone miss out on the peace you got before the next problem!

*just thank God for fixin the problem! and the then enjoy your Up-time!

*And don't Forget who helped u with the last problem!- Cuz he will help you with the next one!

* after a while you will get in the habit of :Problem-Prayer- Peace!.....Problem- Prayer-Peace....and so on...

*and it wont always get solved as soon as you want it to, but just trust that he has heard your cry and allow him to handle it! don't go to nobody else like u dont trust him! Cause ya mama can't fix it like God can!...she can pray for ya but thats about it!

*Before you know it- you'll see a problem coming and u wont even flinch- cuz u know somebody who can fix it! ....its like livin with a handy man!

WHOLE POINT: Peace on Earth is knowing that trouble will come-but with God on your side- Trouble will go! If you can live life putting all troubles in his hands- you will one day find heaven- in heaven.....Cuz it aint on Earth!

Try the serenity Prayer
"Lord, give me the serenity
to accept the things i can not change
The courage to change the things that i can
and the wisdom to know the difference"
-that always helps me!

Epiphany #1-2009

None of us asked to be put on this earth, we are all just trying to figure out what were supposed to do! Don't worry about what somebody else is doing- cause they're trying to figure it all out just like you!

SWEET DISTURBED GIRL

This is the track from my latest performance at Columbia's Bigmouth Open Mic!

The music, the clothes, and photography all done by yours truly- a labor of love!

Pictures and live video coming soon...COMMENT & ENJOY!!

NATURAL/NORMAL

It is important that before I begin my daily post that the definition of the word normal be defined!- Normal...insinuates what is common, most popular, average and most relateable. So in truth....it is normal to be different- everyone is different believe it or not. Trouble is everyone, or i should say, most folks are trying to hide thier difference's. So in fact, Everyone is hiding something.It bugs me the self righteous folk who claim to be, Natural (another word that needs redefining) because the natural is naked! Unless you're a nudest in the forest you are to some degree "un natural." When adam and eve realized they were naked they saw they had something to hide....and we've been hiding ever since! we got good at it too didnt we?
now we dont just hide it, we enhance it! In the modern world we can grow it, shrink it, bleach it,dye it,Diet, curl it, straighten it,trim,wax and shave it. We all do something to hide what it really is. Our choices of how we hide it may be different- but we all hide it! and hunny that's just Normal. - Tony Jones